1930s to 1940s · Haitianspan
The father takes the peye bôné and the mother decides its worth
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A Haitian peasant wedding was a financial event as much as a celebration, and it was a point where women did the negotiating. At many plasaj weddings the groom's side presented a peye bôné, the payment of happiness, to the parents of the bride. It consisted of money, and sometimes a cow or a large quantity of food. The father received it. He handed it straight to the mother, who divided it between the new couple and herself. If the mother and the bride's godmother judged the amount too low, they were the ones who reopened the price. The ceremony gave the transaction to the men and the decisions to the women. Two women assessed what the marriage was worth, and having a second woman standing beside the mother made the assessment harder to wave away. Weddings also carried ritual and food that families saved for over months, so the money moving through the ceremony was rarely money anyone had to spare.
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